In order to ‘get back at her,’ although she never intended to break up with him, he broke up with her. How does that logic make sense? He is a great guy, but had a moment where he turned into a Jerk.
In order to ‘get back at her,’ although she never intended to break up with him, he broke up with her. How does that logic make sense? He is a great guy, but had a moment where he turned into a Jerk.
I recently read the Ode to the Nice Guys, and it was very inspirational and keeps me going. We do what we do not only to make the mistreated and lonely happy, but to bring a better sense and calm the mood of all. I often turn tragic situations into a bit of a joke to make them more lighthearted about it.
What I see here is that you define us as low-life spineless idiots who just please them to get attention and approval. This does not define me or my fellow Nice Guys in any way, because what goes on in my head is much different. Some people are Jerks; my friend’s mate was told by his girlfriend’s ‘friends’ that she was going to break up with him.
It often times doesn’t benefit us, so most of this argument is invalid. What do we get? A ‘thanks’ or occasional hug. But no; the Jerks and part-Jerks get the relationships and glory.
We don’t just walk around and agree with everything they say; we have our own say in things, and give a decent argument when approached with a tricky topic. I know this by my own experience.